Russell Willingham my greatest mentor in purity was in to speak last night and killed it. He is director of New Creation Ministries in Fresno, and the author of Breaking Free (I'm in the book on page 106-108 under the pseudo name Andrew). Russ will also be our speaker this year at Man-i-Fest in May. Here is some my notes from last night.A real man ask's for help when he needs it.You don't have permission to tell yourself anything that God hasn't told you.95% of what God say's to you is affirming. If it is a rebuke, He wraps it in love.Condemnation doesn't motivate us to positive change.A man does what needs to be done, when it needs to be done.Real men love well.All men fight fear. It's not the absence of fear but the management of it that declare's our manhood.Jesus is the measurement of a man.