God isn't enough. If he was He wouldn't have looked down and said "it's not good for man to be alone."Sin is anything that keeps you out of relationship.You are not powerful because of where you are at, you're powerful because of the desert where you have been.For an impure man marriage only makes it worse.
You don't help anyone by being nice, and the kindest thing you can do for a man is tell him the truth. In that moment you are his friend.